by Sarah Kikkert

In America, the color black is typically reserved for situations of grieving, the most prominent of which being funerals.  Since a wedding embodies an entirely different set of emotions (besides the bittersweetness of goodbye), it’s no wonder wedding colors are represented, seemingly appropriately, on the complete opposite end of the spectrum.

But now, there’s no need to be afraid to use black in your wedding (no more using that old 1800’s phrase “Married in black, you’ll wish yourself back” either – thanks to Sarah Jessica Parker!).  Black is undeniably sophisticated and stylish, and it could be just the right main color – or pop of color – you’re looking for.

With black, the options of your wedding design immediately become endless and very interesting.  For a drop-dead gorgeous theme, choose black as your main – and perhaps only – color, accented with a bit of white.  Black and white weddings, while not a new concept, can take on a whole new look by simply adding some varying textures or patterns to add some depth and interest.

If you are a bride that prefers a little color, black can still be a big help in making your wedding spectacularly chic.  Pair black with any other color, in equal amounts, to create a dramatic and flirty atmosphere.  The beauty of black is its very versatility: it goes with anything, any design, any wedding size, and any table decor.

And finally, for those of you who are still a little shy when it comes to using such a bold accent, there’s still ways to incorporate its sassiness.  Use black to simply compliment your other wedding colors with tiny pops in surprising places, such as on the cake or in your bouquet.  Black is beautiful and can literally be translated into any wedding, no matter your taste!

Love the black square candles, the cool vintage hat and b/w bridesmaid dress.  The cupcakes look good enough to eat immediately and am loving the invitation suite.  Hide your bit of black under your dress with cool pumps too!  And the great linens are very unique.